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She has held the accolade of Sole Survivor, has been labeled a traitor and “the black widow,” and embraced the roles of mother, motivational speaker, fighter, podcast presenter, and author. However, prior to her rise as a reality sensation,

Parvati Shallow was merely a Bulldog. 

It’s been almost 20 years since Shallow ABJ ’04 made her appearance on Survivor: Cook Islands. Sporting a camouflage cap adorned with the Georgia ‘G,’ Shallow captivated viewers and was invited back for three more seasons of the show (soon to be four). 

Spoiler alert: In one season, she secured the $1 million reward. Throughout nearly 50 seasons, only a few dozen individuals from Georgia have participated in Survivor, with Shallow being the only victor.  

“Why do they always desire to vote me out? I’m just a sweet, innocent little girl.” 

“I felt profoundly connected to my identity as a Georgia girl,” states Shallow, a native of Marietta. “In Georgia, there’s an aura of sunny charm, hopefulness, and resilience. You can forge connections with others, and you can be perceived as non-threatening because you hail from the South, so I truly embraced that.” 

And embrace it she did. When she made her Survivor debut in 2006, Shallow’s charm and astute social strategy were unmistakable. 

While at UGA, as she earned her degree in broadcast journalism, pursued psychology, and cultivated friendships in her sorority, Alpha Omicron Pi, she had no inkling that each of these experiences would provide her an advantage in the ultimate social experiment. 09n

“There’s something about what the University of Georgia expects from a student; it’s about being brave in self-discovery, diving deep into your interests, being open to meeting diverse individuals, and being willing to engage in uncertain situations where the outcome is unknown,” she explains. “It fosters personal growth and transformation, and that was my journey at UGA.” 

“It’s like, the Black Widow Brigade. All the girls are teaming up, and we’re spinning the guys around as much as we can.” 

In her second season on Survivor, she played a pivotal role in forming one of the few prosperous female alliances in the show’s legacy. As a standout on Survivor: Micronesia (Fans vs. Favorites), she earned the moniker “black widow” due to her fierce tactics and the title of Sole Survivor, alongside a $1 million reward. 

Shallow concluded her journey with a debated second place in her third attempt—Survivor: Heroes vs. Villains, with numerous fans asserting she should have claimed victory then, too. (Host Jeff Probst even acknowledged he would have cast his vote for her.) In her fourth attempt at the game, Survivor: Winners at War, audiences witnessed Shallow returning to the realm of reality TV, after a decade-long hiatus from the competition. Life had transitioned beyond merely securing hidden immunity idols and crafting a legacy, as Shallow entered motherhood and marriage. This entailed a new set of challenges diverging from a televised contest. 

“I learned how to live on your terms while trusting you can always make a fresh start and begin anew. You possess the strength and the bravery to acquire new skills and adopt different ways of living,” she affirms. 

“What do you call the one who defeated the Dragonslayer?” 

Eliminating prominent male competitors over the years, such as Benjamin Wade (a.k.a. Coach; the self-styled Dragonslayer) has sparked some disappointed fans. 

She asserts that women are frequently scrutinized for striving for the best for themselves and are labeled “villains” for insisting on authority over their own lives. 

“It’s challenging to determine how to appreciate yourself. It demands consistency and dedication to engage in activities solely for your benefit,” Shallow explains. “Yet, the liberation we can attain on the other side, once we embrace radical self-acceptance, is incredibly empowering. I believe that’s the treasure awaiting women through this journey.” 

This is the core message that Shallow emphasizes in her debut book, slated for release this summer, Nice Girls Don’t Win: How I Burned It All Down to Claim My Power. The memoir explores her battles with self-confidence. Her new podcast, bearing the same title, delves even deeper.  

“Like a phoenix rising from the ashes ready to incinerate your abode.” 

Shallow has returned to her origins with a revitalized perspective on life. She has also broadened her reality resume with exciting outcomes, appearing on NBC’s Deal or No Deal Island and The Traitors. She will participate in the forthcoming Survivor vs. The World on CBS. 

Now residing in Los Angeles, Shallow still regards Athens as foundational. One of her fundamental beliefs is to honor the past while accepting that the future is never entirely foreseeable. 

“Don’t fear making mistakes. Don’t shy away from failing. Don’t hesitate to embarrass yourself,” she advises. “Never fixate on a linear trajectory towards success. We are all imperfect beings doing our utmost to navigate through life.” 

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